Matters of the Heart
Chapter 2
Write to be Read
Solution
BBS 1st year
1. Which character, Esther or the Ethiopian wife
loves more deeply? Explain.
Ans: The Ethiopian wife loves more deeply than
Esther because she has stronger determination. The Ethiopian wife takes great
risk to get a single hair from the tail of fierce lion because she wants to
save relation with her husband. The Ethiopian wife puts her life in the great
risk because she loves her husband more deeply. Esther also seems to love
Laurence. They spend their life together since childhood. But when Laurence
deceives Esther, she decides to kill him which is not good. She should have
thought an idea about how she can attract him towards her instead of killing
him. I think killing the lover to take revenge is not ultimate solution. In the
matter of heart, sometimes obstacles try to win us but we should struggle with
the obstacles and think to remedy them as Ethiopian wife did in the story. So
in my opinion Ethiopian wife loves more deeply than Esther.
2. Many marriage end in divorce often because
love has failed. What are the causes of this failure? (think in general terms,
not of one particular couple you know)
Ans: Marriage is a ceremony in which two. People
become husband d and wife legally. Initially, they are perfect happy, later the
trouble enters to their life and they are on the way of divorce. There may be
many possible reasons of ending marriages in divorce.
The first reason may
be husband and wife could not understand each other’s feelings and emotions.
Sometimes there is misunderstanding between them due to small matters.
Similarly there is no match of religion, class, caste and dispute takes place
in their life Likewise they can’t share their feelings freely because they
don’t trust each other. As a result their relationship I shattered.
Another reason of
divorce may be early marriage. Some boys and girls marry without being matured.
When the challenges, difficulties and dispute take place in everyday life, they
can’t find an alternative solution and their marriage ends in divorce. Another
possible reason may be different life objective. Such as one spouse wants child
at the beginning of the marriage while another partner may want to delay to
establish good career.
In this way love has
failed in the life of many husbands and wives due to misunderstanding,
financial problem, and difference in caste and religion different life
objective and so on. As a result their marriage ends in divorce. In this way
husband’s bad behavior of drinking wine, husband’s demand for dowry, mismatch
in their birth order are some of reasons that end their marriage in divorce.
3. Describe a loving couple you know whose relationship
is an example to others. [2072 for 10 marks]
Ans: My friend, Jivan and his wife, Rima are the
best loving couple I know. They both live near my village. They are really
example to others in their village. They understand and respect to each other’s
feelings and attitudes. My friend Jivan never starts any new work without
asking to his wife, Rima and she also gives very concrete and logical advice to
her husband. They solve any problem by discussing speak lie with each other.
They share their experiences and feelings openly. They have good understanding
and mutual cooperation. They trust to each other. My friend, Jivan is very
funny and romantic, too. Sometimes he tells jokes and makes his wife laugh. If
there is any misunderstanding between them, they talk openly and become clear.
They both are on the
way of progress. Jivan has a government job and Rima teaches in private English
medium school. They have their own house and sufficient land. The couples,
sometimes, go for the short tour and become fresh. They always seem to keep
each other happy. Rima is going to be mother very soon. They are living very
happily and have become example to others in their village. I also respect to
his couple and wish for their bright future.
4. Do women make friends more easily than men do?
Do they know how to be better friends than men do? Explain [2073 for 15 marks]
Ans: It is difficult to say who makes friends more
easily either man or woman however I think woman can me friends more easily by
observing woman’s behavior and activities.
Naturally women are
loyal and sensitive to others. They can understand feelings of others well.
Like men, women don’t make and leave the friends in a hurry. So, they can make
the friends easily than men. Similarly, they are polite and have the feelings
of affection and supportiveness to others. Their affection and supportiveness
attract to others and finally they become friends with others. Women are kind
hearted. They can’t see the difficulties of others and they become friends with
others while helping them.
The next reason may be
women are emotional and get attached easily, so they can’t let their friends go
easily. Similarly understanding is the other essential factor of friendship
which is more with women than men. In spite of being far, women share their
feelings on the mobile or face book and understand the feelings of each other.
Similarly, the next reason may also be that very few person reject women’s
request to be friend and finally the become friends.
5. Using transition Words. [TU 2072 for 2 marks]
Choose the better of
the two transition words within parentheses and rewrite each item as one
sentence with a semicolon or as two sentences separated by a period.
a. Some people feel
that total honesty is essential in a loving relationship others feel it is
dangerous to be completely honest. (However/ therefore) [2071]
Ans: Some people feel
that total honesty is essential in a loving relationship. However, others
feel it is dangerous to be completely honest.
b. One writer feels
that good lies lead to a good marriage a person should lie in order not to hurt
the spouse’s feeling. (However/ in other words) [2072]
Ans: Lack of
communication is at the top of the “destructive” list so we can see how
important communication is to a healthy loving relationship.
c. Selfishness can
eventually destroy a loving relationship an unforgiving nature can make
disappear very quickly.
Ans. Selfishness can
eventually destroy a loving relationship, but an unforgiving
nature can make disappear very quickly.
d. A lack of trust is
a problem, for destruct can weaken any relationship.
Ans. A lack of
trust is a problem, for destruct can weaken any relationship.
e. A perfectionist can
make the other person fell incompetent the other person may feel it is
pointless trying to please the perfectionist.
Ans. A
perfectionist can make the other person fell incompetent, so the other person
may feel it is pointless trying to please the perfectionist.
6. using Subordinating Conjunctions.
Identity the two
independent clauses in each item. then combine them using subordinating
conjunctions: because, even though, if, unless. you may use some words more
than once.
a. Acceptance and a
sense of humor aren’t the qualities, most people think of first they are very
important qualities in a loving relationship.
Ans: Even
though acceptance and a sense of humor aren’t the qualities, most
people think of first they are very important qualities in a loving
relationship.
b. Acceptance and a
sense of humor aren’t the qualities, most people think first they are very
important qualities in a loving relationship.
Ans: If we
really love someone, it means we love the person as they are, not as we would
like them to be.
c. Not everything in
life turns out the way we want a sense of humor about life is a way of
accepting what comes our way.
Ans: Because not
everything in life turns out the way we want, a sense of humor about life is a
way of accepting what comes our way.
d. A sense of humor
can make us feel rich and happy it is not the result of how many possessions we
have.
Ans: A sense of humor
can make us feel rich and happy even though it is not the
result of how many possessions we have.
e. Some people take
themselves and life too seriously, they can become easily disappointed when
thing turn out differently than they expect.
Ans: Because some
people take themselves and life too seriously, they can become easily
disappointed when thing turn out differently than they expect.
f. We can say that we
see the humor in life we are quick to laugh at ourselves and the difficulties
life bring.
Ans: We can say that
we see the humor in life if we are quick to laugh at ourselves
and the difficulties life bring.
g. A relationship can become
boring and predictable the people in the relationship have a sense of humor.
Ans: A relationship
can become boring and predictable, unless the people in the
relationship have a sense of humor.
7. Editing for Run-On Sentences.
Rewrite the paragraph,
correcting the run-on sentences. Some run-on sentences can be corrected in more
than one way.
Some people are
probably more successful in their relationship they have the qualities
essential to loving relationship. The lack of these qualities is probably the cause
of many problems we have with other people many of us would benefit from
developing those qualities we don’t have. For example, many people get married
and divorced over and over again others don’t get along with coworkers on the
job. Perhaps their lives would be easier if they were better at communication
if they were more honest about their feelings.
Ans: Some people are probably more successful in
their relationship they have the qualities essential to loving relationship.
The lack of these qualities is probably the cause of many problems we have with
other people. Therefore, many of us would benefit from
developing those qualities we don’t have. For example, many people get married
and divorced over and over again. In addition, others don’t
get along with coworkers on the job. Perhaps their lives would be easier if
they were better at communication and if they were more honest
about their feelings.
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